Psychology says people who become harder to love as they age aren't becoming bitter — they're finally refusing to perform the version of themselves that made everyone comfortable at their own expense - VegOut

Psychology says people who become harder to love as they age aren't becoming bitter — they're finally refusing to perform the version of themselves that made everyone comfortable at their own expense  VegOutPsychology says people who have no close friends aren't usually socially incompetent — they have a pattern-recognition ability that makes small talk feel like cognitive torture  Silicon CanalsPsychology suggests people who become intolerable to be around as they age aren't becoming worse people — they're becoming more concentrated versions of the person they always were, and the traits that were manageable at 40 have simply run out of th  VegOutPsychology says adults who have no close friends aren't people who failed at connection — they're people who got hurt specifically enough, early enough, that they built a life so self-sufficient the hurt never had to happen again, and the self-sufficiency worked,  VegOutPsychology says people who become